Eat better not less


 

Eat better, not less

“Whatever the problem is, the answer is not in the fridge”

Food. The source of energy and at times my ultimate weakness. In a time when you are not allowed a reassuring hug from family or a pat on the back from a friend or colleague, a tasty chocolate bar or delicious bag of crisps seems to take on that role. The role of comfort blanket and soother who makes the rubbish day or tiredness go away and gives you that silver lining. Or does it?

This week’s theme is quite a personal one to me as it is something I struggle to maintain consistency with. I certainly will not and more importantly cannot write this as any sort of informed expert. I can, however, share with you some of my battles with food and how with it, the rest of my life then falls into line. What line? Well, more often than not, that depends on the food I have chosen to consume.

 

We hear this term comfort food which leads me to think this is what I need to pick me up or be the game changer when my mood has plummeted. However, time and time again, I wake up the next day feeling bloated, dehydrated or lacking energy. This is something I am fully aware of but sometimes, particularly at the business end of the term (week 4 onwards) it just doesn’t seem to process. Now I am certainly not advocating a treat free diet. Well done if this is the path you are taking but I don’t think the pandemic lends itself to withdrawing ALL treats! But I am suggesting we think about whether or not we need as many snacks of that ilk or whether, on occasions, we can seek satisfaction from healthier alternatives. Easier said than done but, if our sole source of comfort is food then perhaps we should consider a change. For me, exercise is a much better form of escapism which then gives you that golden ticket to enjoy that Double Decker (just one mind) without a sense of regret the next day.

 

A lot of my reflections are as a working dad, under pressure as we all are to balance jobs, family, health etc. but I’d also like to share with you the reflections of a working mum. This parent has very kindly written down her thoughts on food.

 

 

We Need To Talk About Biscuits

Eating healthily can be a real challenge at the moment.  Being at home and grappling with the temptation to raid the cupboard may sound familiar to some.  As parents, we often place ourselves at the bottom of the pile.  For example, I am terrible at eating breakfast.  Mornings for me are rushing around getting everyone else prepared for the day.  Then, somehow, it’s 11 o’ clock and I realise I am hungry!  I’ve got a call in five minutes, there’s another Zoom lesson about to start and child number one is demanding their fifth snack of the day.  So the kettle goes on, and while I’m waiting for it to boil, before I know it I’ve eaten half a packet of Jammy Dodgers. 

Looking at your eating habits, being honest with yourself and identifying what is the driving force behind those bad food choices is key to making changes.  I realised where I was going wrong, and it comes back round to, surprise, surprise, not looking after myself.  So, I identified the problem – I felt like I didn’t have time in the mornings to make myself a decent breakfast, leading to feeling ravenous mid-morning and reaching for the biscuit tin.  I needed something quick, healthy and filling in the morning to stop me from falling into the same trap, again and again. 

I researched breakfast bar recipes.  I found one I liked the look of on the BBC GoodFood website https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/cinnamon-berry-granola-bars and on Sunday night I made a batch for the week ahead.  I eat one with my morning cuppa and, honestly, they are delicious, packed with goodness and can keep me going through ‘til lunch.  Mine were full of oats, nuts, seeds and dried fruit but the good thing is, if you don’t like something, substitute!  Don’t like nuts?  Use some wholegrain cereal.  Not keen on dried fruit?  Maybe add a few dark chocolate chips.  This recipe did call for butter and sugar so they’re not completely angelic, but, for me, it’s a positive change and there are, of course, loads of recipes out there.  They are great for getting the kids involved too and one of the best things about them is, you’ve made them yourself, which can give you a boost on its own.  Me - 1, biscuits - nil!

Gemma Frank, biscuit lover and parent

A big thank you to Gemma Frank for her contribution and hopefully something you can relate to.

This blog is not about preaching healthy eating or even suggesting we all need to diet; it’s simply about making sure we understand that clichés such as, “We are what we eat” although annoying when someone quotes them at you, actually do carry some weight. Sensible food choices can provide us with more energy (not the forlorn body that awakes the day after a takeaway or is that just me?), can help improve the mood (contradicting my chocolate bar mood improver theory) and helps us to think more clearly. If ever there is a time I need to think clearly, it is now. Therefore, if I can reduce my crisp and Double Decker intake, improve my mood, have more energy for family, work and exercise in the process, then surely eating a bit better may not be all bad after all?

I have included a link with a bit more information:

https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/food-and-mood/about-food-and-mood/

I’d really like to hear your thoughts on this and all the blog posts so if there is something you can relate to or wish to get off your chest please do comment. Alternatively, if you wish to contribute to the blog, please get in touch.

 

That’s it from me- I’m off for a cereal bar and to hide the Jaffa Cakes.

Stay safe

Darren

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